Sigh…Parents…

I’m posting an incident that happened to a child in my town because things need to be said to all the parents out there. Please take what is said in the spirit of love for you and for your child. Posted as written by the dad~

“Just a warning to all parents in the Wind* Rd area.my 14 year old daughter was just followed by a guy in his mid to late 20s in a black sedan -she was too frightened to get make and model or plate number, it was on Wind* by *** diner she walked up to a woman who had her child with her, and my daughter confided in her told her what happened and all the woman could say was being dressed like that says your asking for it she didn’t help she didn’t do nothing but make my daughter feel even more worse about her self and now she thinks that she was asking for it me and my wife found the woman and confronted her and she told us the same thing that our daughter was asking for it dressed the way she was … No girl of any age is asking for it you sick excuse of a human being our kids are taught in school if they don’t feel safe to go find someone and seek help!! well she did that and it failed her … To the woman my daughter came to for help your lucky my wife didn’t feel like having me bail her out of jail tonight and to the creep that followed my daughter your lucky this dad didn’t catch you because I would of gladly did a life sentence for my daughter I only have a week left of my parole but mess with my family and I’ll gladly put that jumpsuit back on in a heartbeat.. ok end of rant just have one thing to say if any of y’all have kids and they ever feel threatened or not safe and me or my wife is around just know that your babies are safe #ProtectOurChildren just glad that our daughter came home safe and not the other ending that could of happened – description, black male, black car”

What this woman did to this child was shameful! What she said was none of her business to say to the child or her parents-it’s not her responsibility to give unasked for personal fashion advice to a child or her parents. Here is a comment on the post and then my response to it:

“…And to the female, who said she was asking for it? It’s 2023 not 1893. Women can wear what they want, and NO still means no, and he shouldn’t have tried approaching a minor, either way.” (Note: a lot of commenters said this. One commentor said that how a child dresses is not an invitation to which I said that it is for prostitutes and the perpetrator will believe it is.)

“Maybe the way the child was dressed he thought she was older. Why not let our children walk out the door naked then, since they aren’t “asking for it.” Common sense says we don’t let our children out the door dressed provocatively even if “no” means “no.” Its 2023 and things are far more perverse with men wanting sex w/children than ever before. It protects the children to have them dress modestly and according to age. Too many idiots out there like this one that doesn’t give a flip if “no” means “no.” Playboy magazine made profits off of nude and scantily clad women, so you see where men’s minds are at. We live in a dangerous society. Protect your children in every minute detail. As far as that woman who shamed the girl instead of helping her, she should have been beaten by the girl’s mother-yes! I would have cheered her (the mother) on and given the bail money to boot. The woman meddled where she should not have. That wasn’t her daughter. She was called on to help and she failed miserably. I hope this man gets caught before he succeeds with another child. Another note, if you have read this far-look at the children that are rescued from child sex trafficking and see how they are forced to dress for the clients… Don’t dress your kids like that, please. Soon enough they will be adults and can dress however they want to.”

I just want to add that parents need to realize that “no means no” no matter how a child is dressed won’t help except in a court of law when the pervert perpetrator is caught and charged. If he is, that is. It won’t prevent kidnapping, rape, torture or God forbid! murder, of your child. These evil beasts don’t care. They don’t think like you do. But you, parent, need to start thinking like they do where your child is concerned.